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Rabbi Lipskar's weekly d'var torah
Ki Tavo
This week’s portion is distinct because it contains two seemingly polarizing perspectives. The first half speaks of overflowing blessings, gratitude for abundance, the unique covenant between G-d and the Jewish people, and the deep love that binds us. The second half, however, shifts sharply to the “Tochacha” the ninety-eight frightening admonitions describing what could happen if we abandon our holy connection to Hashem and His Torah.
This tension reflects Jewish history itself. There have been eras of flourishing, pride, and public acclaim and there have been eras of darkness, pogroms, Holocaust, October 7th and rabid antisemitism. Yet through these extremes, the Jewish people endured when every other nation facing lesser challenges disappeared. As the Previous Rebbe taught: “Only our bodies were sent into exile, our souls remained free.”
And yet, danger doesn’t come only in times of persecution. Times of freedom and comfort bring their own quiet threat. Since 1945, the Jewish people have lost more than six million souls not to crematoriums or pogroms, but to assimilation, apathy, and forgetting who we are.
Our Rabbis offer a profound insight into the verses of the Tochacha. The Torah says: “All these curses will come upon you… because you did not listen to the voice of Hashem… so that they would be a sign and a wonder for you and your children forever.” Read simply, it sounds like eternal destruction. But they explain differently: the curse is not only persecution. The greater tragedy is when mitzvos are performed without passion, leaving no impression on our children. The Torah should have been a “sign and wonder forever” alive in us and in them.
Let’s dig deeper, why do mitzvos sometimes fail to inspire? The Torah answers, “Because you did not serve Hashem with joy and goodness of heart.” Children can sense whether Judaism is lived with simcha or with burden. A mitzvah done with joy is contagious; a mitzvah done with heaviness fades.
A Holocaust survivor once told his children about the darkest days in the camps. Food was scarce, life was unbearable, and yet on Chanukah someone smuggled a little oil and cotton. Against all odds, they lit a makeshift menorah. The survivor remembered that one inmate, weak, starving, and trembling began to sing Maoz Tzur softly. “That song,” he told his children, “was the only light I had that year. It reminded me that even here, Judaism was alive. That memory gave me the strength to rebuild when I came out.”
For his children, that story became their inheritance. It showed them that Judaism is not just about rules, but about light, faith, and courage. It is not a burden we carry, but a treasure we pass on, a source of strength that can inspire even in the darkest of nights.
This is why Moshe Rabbeinu rejoiced at the end of his life when the tribes protested that only Shevet Levi received a Sefer Torah. They said, “What will our children think tomorrow if we have nothing of our own to give them?” Moshe was overjoyed. He declared: “Today you have become a nation.” Because a nation becomes real when its people worry not only about themselves, but about what they will pass down to their children.
That is the Torah’s message. The real test of blessing or curse is not just what happens to us externally, but whether we live Torah in a way that lights up the next generation. Amalek comes when faith is weak. Assimilation comes when Judaism feels empty. Continuity comes when mitzvos are alive with passion, meaning, and love.
As we prepare for the High Holy Days, we face painful reminders, the tragedies in Israel, rising antisemitism around the world, and the quiet erosion of Jewish life in times of comfort. But the parsha also reminds us: all these difficulties are temporary setbacks before great leaps forward. We are living in the era of Moshiach. The world is trembling, searching for permanence and truth.
Now is the time to strengthen our legacy. To live mitzvos with joy so that our children will see them as treasures, not burdens. To pass down not only Torah knowledge, but a Judaism that inspires, enriches, and gives life meaning. If we do, we will turn rebuke into blessing, exile into redemption, and merit to be inscribed and sealed for a good and sweet year — with revealed goodness, health, and peace for all of the Jewish people and the entire world.
Have a great Shabbos and a good week.
Rabbi Zalman Lipskar
(adapted from the writings of my Father and Teacher, Rabbi Sholom D. Lipskar, obm)
The Shul Pushka Campaign
It's the little things in life that count. G-d fills the world every moment with His divine energy. Tzedakah is one of the special and significant ways to create an all-encompassing Mitzvah, and in today's world, we need more Mitzvot than ever. It doesn't matter where or how much you give, just make Tzedakah part of your day.
The Shul provides beautiful Pushkas (charity boxes) to the community and to all those that would like to participate in the important Mitzvah of Tzedakah. To request a Shul Pushka please call The Shul Office at 305-868-1411 or fill out the form below.
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Jewish Holidays
All Jewish holidays begin the evening before the date specified on most calendars. This is because a Jewish "day" begins and ends at sunset, rather than at midnight. If you read the story of creation in Genesis Ch. 1, you will notice that it says, "And there was evening, and there was morning, one day."
From this, we infer that a day begins with evening, that is, sunset. Holidays end at nightfall of the date specified on most calendars; that is, at the time when it becomes dark out, about an hour after sunset.
UPCOMING JEWISH HOLIDAY
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Project 33154
Project 33154 is a community wide program to create a neighbor to neighbor Jewish experience. The initial case study started Chanuka 2002 where 10 young Yeshiva boys visited every home in Bay Harbor to identify which ones were Jewish and give them the necessary items (Menorah, Candles, Guides etc.) for the Holiday of Chanuka.
Over 250 Jewish Homes were identified together with a color coded map of Members, Non-Members and Unaffiliated Jews. Over the next Purim and Passover the same idea was used in the Surfside and Bal Harbour area and over 800 new Jewish homes were contacted and had a taste of The Shul.
Block Shluchim
Together with color coded map each neighborhood was split up into different areas that include a lay leader from The Shul.
Before each Yom Tov The Shul prepares a special food package which promotes holiday awareness.
Rosh Hashana, Yom Kippur, Succot, Chanukah, Purim, Pesach andShavout
Every newly identified Jewish household in the Bal Harbour, Bay Harbor Islands and Surfside areas has been contacted with thousands of Apples and Honey packages, Chanukah kits and Purim Mishloach Manos and food packages distributed this year.
Over 350 pounds of hand-made Shemurah Matzo (that’s about 2,450 pieces of matzah) has been distributed throughout 33154. If you are new on the 33154 area, please let us know so you can be included in this amazing and inspiring Jewish Program.
Send a letter to the Rebbe זי"ע

Throughout his lifetime, the Rebbe received hundreds of letters every day, from people of every conceivable background, occupation and faith. Today people continue to send letters to be placed at the Ohel for the Rebbe's guidance and intervention On High, in the age-old tradition of written prayer petitions at our holiest sites
Whether referring to one's own self or mentioning someone else's name in a letter, one should always include the name and mother's name (e.g. Isaac the son of Sarah) of both the one(s) who are in need of blessing and the signer.
http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/761128/jewish/Why-Use-the-Mothers-Name-When-Praying-for-Someone.html
http://www.ohelchabad.org/templates/articlecco_cdo/aid/78445It is preferable to use one's Jewish name. (Customarily gentiles use their father's name.) Letters can be written in any language. You can fax directly to the Ohel at: (718) 723-4444 Or you can use the form below to have the rabbis at Ohel Chabad Lubavitch http://www.ohelchabad.org/templates/articlecco_cdo/aid/78445personally bring your prayers to the Rebbe’s resting place.
The Rebbe

The Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson of righteous memory, the seventh leader in the Chabad-Lubavitch dynasty, is considered to have been the most phenomenal Jewish personality of modern times. To hundreds of thousands of followers and millions of sympathizers and admirers around the world, he was -- and still is, despite his passing -- "the Rebbe."
Whether referring to one's own self or mentioning someone else's name in a letter, one should always include the name and mother's name (e.g. Isaac the son of Sarah) of both the one(s) who are in need of blessing and the signer.
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